At the interview with Sandra Ng yesterday, Sandy told us the story behind the divorce for the first time. She said it took her a really long time to make that decision. Marry forever happily ever after is always her dream, but two people in a marriage should try to go through all the ups and downs together no matter what. Until a point when she found she couldn’t keeping walking on the same path, she started to ask her if she want be trapped or free herself, she choose to free herself.

She added, her background with Jonathan is too different, and she admitted that there were some small conflicts here and there, but she is not someone who would make a big deal out of it, but still, everything lead to some disagreements on certain big issues… so one thing lead to another and they got divorced. Sandy explained they both made mistakes, there were things they just couldn’t solve together, that’s why things ended up that way. Yet, she has no regret.

When asked if they can be friends… she said their relationship is not that bad, but it’s going to take some time. She hopes they can still be friends and get together when there is time. She also said there is no need to get marry again. If two people really love one another, and believe it would last foreveer, why do we need a paper to prive it? A woman to get marry is a tradition, but two people stay happy together doesn’t really need to get marry at the end.

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